HOW DO I KNOW IF I'M IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?

DOES YOUR PARTNER:

• Ridicule, humiliate, embarrass or put you down in public or private?
• Attempt to isolate you from your family and/or friends?
• Blame you for all the problems in your relationship?
• Take control of all the finances, deny you access to money or insist
that you account for every penny you spend?
• Attempt to control where you go and/or what you do?
• Intentionally lock you in or out of the house or take your car keys?
• Use alcohol, drugs or his bad childhood as an excuse for his bad behavior?
• Push, slap, punch or throw objects at you?
• Deprive or punish your children when he’s angry with you?
• Force you to have sex or perform unwanted sexual acts?

DO YOU FREQUENTLY:

• Change your behavior to deal with your partner’s moods and temper?
• Constantly worry about what kind of mood your partner will be in?
• Feel like you are walking on egg shells?
• Feel like you are going crazy?
• Fear the consequences of just being you?

You MAY be a victim of abuse if you have answered yes to any of the above questions.

If you or anyone you know needs help, it is available.

Jewish Family Service 199 Scoles Ave. Clifton, NJ 07012 • Phone 973-777-7638 • Fax 973-777-9311